DENIAL

de·ni·al

diˈnīəl/

noun

the action of declaring something to be untrue.

Well, that's the definition of "denial".

You know why I wrote this post? Recently I felt that I often get myself into a denial stage.

Like, I just got a short haircut, then I denied that I miss my long hair, I denied that I love it long. Plus people around me tell that my new hair is better cause I look fresh in it.

That's just a simple instance.

What I wanna talk about is, I feel that I often denied something in order to put a distance from people, I don't want them to know what I really feel. I don't know why. Like, I used to like that one guy, but I kept it myself, when people were asking about what I feel, I usually said no I didn't like him.

In my humble opinion, sometimes denial can protect yourself from something you don't want it to be happened in the future. But, it can also be your boomerang, it attacks you and you know it will.

Lessons Learned From The Timeless Fairytales.

Hello there! How are you doin? Hope you're good. Did you know, I'm a great fan of Disney Princess, they're all sweet. Hbu, do you? This post, I'm tryin to make a conclusion by myself, take lessons to be learned from the story of Disney Princesses. Not all of them, just some. Enjoy my article! :D

I. Beauty And the Beast.

Overview:

Once upon a time, Belle, the beauty was falling in love with the scary big beast. She loves Beast just the way he is, until one day something revealed. Actually, Beast was a cursed prince charming. They lived happily ever after.

Lesson learned:

1. Don't judge the book by its cover, means, don't judge people by their appearance.

2. Love your partner just the way they are.

3. Just be patient and believe.

II. The Little Mermaid.

Overview:

Once upon a time, Ariel, the beautiful mermaid was falling in love with the prince charming from mainland. She couldn't reach the land if she's still a mermaid. One day, Ursula, the wicked-fat-ugly-octopus offered Ariel to exchange her beautiful voice with a pair of legs. Ariel accepted and went to the prince's place, but she had no voice to speak. Prince didn't know who she really was. Ariel was brokenhearted and turned into foam in the sea.

Lesson learned:

1. Don't fall in love with someone whose world is totally different with you, that you cannot reach them.

2. Don't sacrifice your great things for people who even don't know that you're exist.

III. Cinderella

Overview:

Once upon a time, Cinderella, a beautiful girl left by her mom's death. She lived with her father, and her cruel stepmother along with two stepsisters. One day, a prince held a ball in his spacious palace. Cinderella didn't allowed to go there by her stepmother. But she could go there, helped by her Fairy God Mother. Of course, Cinderella was offering her effort and courageous too.

Lessons learned:

1. Never give up on your life, whatever the condition is. Keep showing your effort.

2. Just believe that miracles will come to you. (Of course this one's a joke. Don't take it too serious, lol.)

Is that enough? I guess no :p But I have no more idea. So, see ya in the next post with different topics! :D

Future Expectations vs. Reality

Whoaaaa it's been a long time since my last post!

Sebenernya sih lagi gak tau mau nge-blog apaan kali ini, cuma lagi pengen aja.

Hmm..

Tiba-tiba keinget akan omongan dosen gue di matakuliah Sistem Infomasi Manajemen,

"5 tahun lagi kalian akan jadi apa?"

Kalo mikirin future, rasanya kok bingung ya.

Sukur-sukur bisa cuma 4 tahun lulus langsung terus dapet kerjaan (AMIN).

Gue pribadi sih pengen bisa jadi public accountant, atau auditor juga boleh.

Ya I know, sounds boring. Abis gimana dong yah kayanya uda stuck juga di jurusan akuntansi yang sedang gue jalani ini, bisa jadi apa lagi coba? Hahaha.

Tapi kalo diliat dari IPK gue yang super pas-pasan ini bisa jadi apa gue nanti?

Intinya sih gue harus lebih giat lagi, tp untuk jadi anak rajin itu gak mudah, bener-bener susah!

Fyi, besok gue ada kuis akuntansi biaya dan sampe sekarang gue belum nyentuh bahannya, minggu lalu tugas gue gak diterima lantaran gue telat ngumpulin.

Kalo lo jadi gue, udah tau dong hasilnya bakal kaya apa. Pathetic memang.

AH, kok blog gue postnya ikutan jadi boring gini juga sih?

Hahaha kacau nih. Better sampe sini dulu deh ya!

See ya in my next post, and wish me luck untuk perkuliahan gue.

this is for you, yes you.

"If you really want me to stick around a bit longer, then don’t let me feel unimportant."

just got it from my mind.

"It's funny when I think I've finally gotten over you. But then I talk to you again and the feelings come back."